Q

I saw my brother today but I did not know what to say. What can you say after 4 years of no communication. Last year he can into my work an I did not even recognize him. I talked to his wife briefly but all I could say is that you can't pick your siblings' spouses. That seemed to be why he stopped talking to me anyway, a couple months before I married my DH. I avoided Q because I get so upset about being booted from his life and it was my sister's wedding we did not need any drama. I may send him an email but I am too emotional to talk. I want to be the bigger person and try to break some ice but I don't know what I did in the first place, I don't know what to say.